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How to change the yearly marathon that’s your life!

Do you feel like your life and year is like running a marathon? It’s like you spend the whole year running around busily, very occasionally slowing down, then picking up the pace again? …. it’s now… the finish line is in site….only a few more steps to take and you’ve made it! BIG SIGH!! I know I often feel like this at the end of the working year. So, with the Xmas break fast approaching, perhaps it is time to stop and really stop, put the feet up,  rest up, breathe and take the time to really give back to yourself? You deserve it. What will the new year will look like for you?…. Will it continue with the same speed as it was this year?…. How is that currently been working out for you? Will it pick up the pace even more?….How will that end up looking like for you? OR Will you reassess? Reprioritise? And make some changes? I use to get to this time of year, and fall in a heap. Completely exhausted and worn out. I would …

Be your own health advocate!

Your health and wellbeing is so important to your energy, focus, happiness, vitality and longevity. If you truly knew just how amazing our bodies are, then you would be in absolute awe of yourself. Just think about this for a minute; Your body is a multitude of biological pathways working constantly to keep you alive, happy, well and full of energy. You have a autonomic nervous system (ANS). This autonomic nervous system is a control system that acts largely unconsciously and regulates bodily functions such as the heart rate, digestion, urination, coughing, sneezing and controls our responses to just about everything- automatically. You don’t have to do anything….or do you? Now I don’t know about you, but this body of mine, is something I certainly want to look after? Though, in this fast paced world we are living, we often neglect this most important fact….If we don’t nurture ourselves and our bodies, then no one is going to do this for us and our truly amazing systems that are there to protect and maintain us, will start to decline- …

Do you stuggle to set boundries?

How often do you find yourself drowning in responsibilities and yet, you get ask to do something, like; another commitment or project at work and you say YES? Or sign your kids up to another activity even though you are struggling to schedule the ones they are already enrolled in into the diary? Perhaps you are someone who really struggles to say No to anyone, but inside your body and mind is screaming “STOP…NO MORE!” It is overwhelming. I know, I use to do this all the time…”YES, I can do that!” ” Sure, I’ll find the time” “if they can do it, surely I can too?”…you know how it goes? Meanwhile, I would struggle to get anything I needed to get done, often in the end feeling resentful, then  I would push myself,  above and beyond, then wonder why my health would deteriorate and I would drag myself out of bed feeling exhausted and drained. We often put unnecessary pressure on ourselves to do more, achieve more, be more! you can read more about the pressure of …

How to regain your control and make you a priority

Are you wanting to take back control and make you the priority you need your body to be? Without good health, you cannot live the incredible life you were born to live. I truly believe that without good food and lifestyle choices, we cannot think, move, function and be at our absolute best. Understanding not only what and how we eat, but also how we choose to live and feel, is essential to our overall wellness. So many people today, live according to what they think they should be doing, instead of what they really want to do. We get bogged down with life’s responsibilities and so often neglect ourselves. For most women, we tend to take on more and more roles than we really need, then these responsibilities begin to wear us down. I know, because for many years, this was me and at times, I can still be this person. In fact, my daughter only this morning told me, “Mummy, you always put everyone else first”. We are always a working progress, but …

The Perfect Life?

The pressure of living the perfect life! We look on social media and follow people on Instagram who appear to have it all. So we think if they can do it, so can I, (you read somewhere on a post saying we can have it all.) We Get up early in the morning, go to the gym or Pilates, with our superfoods green smoothie (you read somewhere it’s all the go and will make your skin look amazing!) in your matching lululemon outfit. You rush home to get ready for work, if you have kids you get them off to school, then make your way to work. You’re at work, you return 303 emails (because you don’t want anyone thinking your neglecting them) and work like a demon, because you need to prove your worth to your boss and colleagues. You don’t want them thinking you’re not a capable superwomen now do you? You squeeze in some errands on your lunch break, that way you get to add some more steps to your Fitbit (got …

Sleep like a baby with my top tips to gain a good nights sleep!

This post has my top 8 tips for you to sleep like a baby! A good night sleep is so essential to our health and wellbeing, It will make us function at our best, feeling rested and clear. I am someone who from time to time, has had sleep problems. Mostly, I sleep really well, but I go through bouts of sleeplessness.  I have little tricks and routines that help me achieve a well rested nights sleep. Below I have listed some of these strategies. There are important reasons for us to have a restful sleep as many restorative functions occur whilst we are in our slumber. Our body goes into rest and repair mode, creating muscle growth, protein synthesis, neurotransmitter restoration, as well as tissue and cell repair. In children it is key for hormone production and brain development. I thinks that’s pretty important! If you are someone who struggles to have a good quality nights sleep, then this can affect your overall health. Sleep issues and insomnia can leave you feeling irritable, low energy, brain fog and unmotivated. These feelings can lead us to …

Slow Down

It is so easy in these busy lives we lead today, to have the tendency to overcomplicate things. So much of what we do is our choice. The job that sucks every ounce of energy from us. The endless list of activities our kids are enrolled in, the committees, sports, extra housework, helping out friends, family, neighbours, dog, all to the exclusion of our own needs- it’s all stuff we said YES too. But perhaps we need to ask ourselves “how is this really working out for me?” The more stressed out, overwhelmed, exhausted and frustrated you feel at not having time for yourself to slow down and reenergize, the greater the disconnect between your mind and body and more than often, less productive. So if everything in your world right now is telling you to STOP! SLOW DOWN! Then, it’s time for you to simplify. To practice saying NO, put up some boundaries and set aside some time for you. I know this is not always easy, especially if your a ‘doer’. I get …

Pancake Morning

It’s a pancake kind of morning. Who here has a slow, hearty breakfast on a an Sunday? Maybe you like to go out for a big fry up? In our busy lives, it’s important to take at least one morning out of our week, to slow down, regroup and re-energize. Whether this is a sleep in, a long read of paper, going out for breakfast or stay in your PJ’s till lunch, don’t forget to slow down and replenish!

What’s stopping you?

What is it that stops you from asking for help or assistance? What is it that blocks you from deciding, taking and embracing change? Is it- resisting the acceptance that things need to change? That what you are currently doing is not working? Is it- fear of change? because right or wrong, what you are currently doing may not be serving you well nor working but it’s what you know and there is a security and safety in doing what you do? Is it- You don’t want to spend the money? You don’t see the value of investing in yourself, you don’t think your worth it or you will feel guilty if you do, that money could be for spending on a holiday, mortgage or an activity for the kids? Is it- Your inability to ask for help because that would mean accepting or even admitting to yourself, let alone anyone else that your not coping and things aren’t going well? I get it. I truly do. I hear it all the time. I should …

the ritual

Find some grounding with my SIMPLE HEALTH QUIZ

Do you feel like you can’t keep up with your busy life – the never ending “to-do” list, schedules, activities, demands and expectations? Is it time to create more calm and balance with your health and lifestyle? Do you need to find some grounding? Take my FREE SIMPLE HEALTH QUIZ and start taking steps to finding you inner ‘Grounded Chic’!